July 02, 2005

【恋愛感情とは？】恋愛感情がなくなるとき・・・

匠の回答追加！！

【匠へ】
前回のご回答ありがとう！私は　�“狃�に心の安らぎだけを求めている
に近いんじゃないかと思う。彼女は悶々として眠れないらしい・・・
男と女が逆！！


【本日のお悩み】
学生時代の友人Ｎ子から
付き合って4年たった彼。結婚の話はない・・・Ｎ子には結婚願望はない。
ただ・・・「恋愛感情」がなくなってしまったという。
どうしたらいい？なんでだと思う？



ある本で「恋愛感情は生物学的に見て、4年が限界」と書いていたのを見たことがある・・・
4年・・・これはキーになる期間じゃないかな？彼女だけでなく、ビジネス仲間、ほかの友人たちもだいたい4年間という期間が境目になっているパターンが多い。

Ｈもしたくなくなるの？

出会ったときは会うたびにしていたのに・・・もう1ヶ月に1度あるかないかだよ。

私は、そうじゃないんだよね。Ｈは大事・・・匠はどうよ？
男の人って浮気したいのかな？？？？

【匠の回答】
どうも、tomo。

Ｈは確かに大事だよ。
ただ、正直人間はあきやすい生き物で、
同じことをしていると確かに飽きてしまうのだよ。

Ｈについても同じ。
同じことをしていては飽きてしまう。

だから、解決策としては、
飽きてきたと思ったら、二人でなにか新しいことをひとつづつ加えていこう。

それで飽きは減ると思うよ。

ただ、もっと大事なことがあって。

おそらくこの質問をしてくれた人は、
Ｈに大して受身なのだと思うよ。
それじゃあ、だめ、Ｈはふたりのハーモニー。
与えて与えられての関係じゃないと続かない。
飽きられたくないのであれば、
常に彼女も仕掛けていかないと。

これは人生にもいえることだね。

うーん、今日は深い。


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